Tell the truth... are you leafing through pictures of babies, dreaming of holding your own baby, or experiencing that unexplainable pull at your heart every time you look at a baby? In this case, you can have baby fever. It is not as uncommon as you may think and it does not necessarily imply that you are crazy or too sentimental but it can be your mind and heart forcing you to take another step in life.
What Is Baby Fever?
It would be prudent first to define it. The baby fever is not a mere expression, but rather an emotion and even a physical reaction that makes you crave having a baby.
Some moms describe it as:
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A longing desire to care and bring up a baby.
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Emotional or sentimental near babies.
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Daydreaming about how you will be a mom.
Fun fact: Baby fever is not age-based. Others experience it during their late twenties or even thirties or even forties. And of course it is quite normal to feel like that--even though you may not know whether you want a baby just now or not.
1. You Can’t Stop Thinking About Babies
The baby is always in your mind and that is one of the obvious indications of baby fever. You might notice:
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Fantasizing about the babies names.
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Thinking of how your nursery would be.
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Getting emotional with baby videos or pregnant friends.
Hint: Writing down what you are thinking will make you realize whether these feelings are a fleeting fancy or a serious and true preparation to motherhood.
2. You Feel Emotional Around Babies
Are you easily crying because of:
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You see a newborn in the park
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You find yourself smiling because of a baby.
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Friends inform about their pregnancy.
Yes, then you are more empathetic and emotionally attached to babies, a good reason to suggest that you may be mature enough to take on the challenges of motherhood.
Bold Tip: Emotional sensitivity is your super-power as a mom. Connect with your future child deeply with it.
3. You’re Excited About the Idea of Nurturing
Motherhood does not mean embracing the baby with love, but nurturing, teaching, and influencing them. The baby fever is often accompanied by strong interest to treat a person as a whole, like:
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Cooking food to tiny fingers.
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Assistance in children development.
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Creating a warm and loving atmosphere to a child.
Swift Assessment: When you are excited thinking that you will be taking care of another person and envisioning their development, then that is a good indicator that you are prepared.
4. You’re Mentally Preparing for Change
Motherhood transforms you- no question. However, when you are ready to take changes in life, it is one indication that baby fever is not a temporary mood. Look for:
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The readiness to change your habits.
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Vitality with regard to long-term planning.
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Be willing to temporarily surrender your needs to those of another person.
Pro Tip: Discuss the experience with other moms. Real life stories will make you understand how much you are prepared and what to anticipate.
5. You’re Thinking About Stability
The baby fever may be at its worst when you are feeling subconsciously concerned with stability. This includes:
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Emotional stability in relationships.
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Monetary availability to provide a child.
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A healthy, comfortable place to live.
Tip: It is possible to be practical and have baby fever. When you are willing but your life is not, then begin to plan small steps to get stable.
6. You’re Curious About Parenthood
Curiosity is a good sign that your mind is prepared to be a mother. You may find yourself:
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Reading parenting books or blogs such as FitFlowDaily.
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Videos on baby care and early childhood.
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A question with friends on parenting issues and delights.
Daring Hint: Curiosity is an emotional intelligence, which is one of the most valuable qualities that a mom should possess. Accept it, yet counterbalance it with realistic expectations.
7. You Feel a Deep Longing for Connection
Motherhood does not merely involve bringing up a child, it is about establishing a life long relationship. Baby fever is usually accompanied by a craving toward:
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Deep, unconditional love.
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Being there to share your world with one who is totally reliant on you.
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Building a family legacy.
Sidenote: It is a normal feeling to experience this longing. It is your body and mind in a ready mode to go on the great journey.
How to Know if Baby Fever Means You’re Really Ready
The baby fever may be severe at times, however, that does not necessarily imply that it is time to have a baby. The following is a basic checklist that will help determine your preparedness:
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Emotionally am I prepared to place a child first?
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Support (partner, family, friends)?
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Am I economically ready to have the responsibilities of having a child?
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Am I psyche prepared to make long-term changes that motherhood imposes on me?
When you say yes to most of these, you may be experiencing the real readiness of having a baby with your baby fever. Otherwise, there is no need to panic, it is better to plan and wait.
Tips for Coping With Baby Fever While Waiting
Life timing is not always ideal though the sentiments are hard to ignore. Here is the way to deal with baby fever without getting into a frenzy of having children:
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Pay attention to developing: Volunteer with children, babysit nieces or nephews, or mentor children in your community.
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Get the feelings out: write, journal or create a vision-board about your future family.
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Rebuild relationships: Strengthen your relationship with your partner, family or friends.
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Educate yourself: Take parenting courses or read books- future planning makes the thought fruitful.
Clever Hint: When you have a baby fever, it is not a sign of weakness. Take it as a small push to get ready to a motherhood, not as a compulsion to do it now.
Conclusion
There is nothing wrong with having baby fever. It is the way your heart says: “You are prepared to give love and care in an entirely new manner. However, it should be born in mind that being ready does not only feel good, but it is all about preparation, stability, and careful planning.
Use baby fever as an indicator to develop, study, and be ready to become a mother. You can take it right now or you can use this time to build your own strength, but each step would take you in a better direction to a healthier and happier life.
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